The #1 Factor in Development and Change

               Thankfully a lot of change happens without great conscious effort.  How many of us had the mostly negative experience of having a relatively unknown aunt pinch our cheek after not seeing us for several years, shaking it and saying, “My, you have grown so much.”  I say mostly negative because, true it never felt good having those old hands lock onto our cheek and shake it around; … [Read more...]

Preparing to Grow

               Some growth just kind of happens.  When we are young we don't have to worry much about it; just feed us, give us a place to live, let us move, and sleep and it just happens.  In other areas, life, experience, the people we hang around with, and the information we get shapes and forms us with little or no effort.  Whether it is in a positive or negative direction, it just kind of … [Read more...]